

Clinical Interventions for Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Dilemmas
February 20 @ 9:00 am - February 24 @ 12:30 pm
Clinical Interventions for Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Dilemmas
February 20 – 24, 2023 | 9:00 am – 12:30 pm daily | USD$949 / CAD$1,234

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About this workshop
Learn skills and interventions to help clients out of the intimacy impasses that lead to low sex and sexless relationships.
This workshop will explore intimacy and erotic recovery and integrative relationship therapy as it applies to working your most difficult relationship dilemmas.
All clinicians who work with anyone in any type of relationship will learn the skills and interventions to help clients out of the intimacy impasses that can lead to loneliness, frustration, and even infidelity.
We will cover the most common problems in sexual relationships. This includes communication blocks, desire discrepancies, trauma, sexless relationships, sexual dysfunctions, affairs, separation, and divorce. All these problems work with both individual therapy and in relationship counseling.
If you are an individual therapist or someone who needs more training to work with relationship impasses and erotic recovery, this workshop can help. You will walk away with interventions to help any client in a relationship, looking for a relationship, or trying to process their past.
Following an overview of clinical concepts in integrative relationship therapy and sex therapy, we will turn our attention to skills to create safety, increase trust, and build repair. We will explore and learn interventions for sexual, intimate, and emotional concerns that reduce anxieties (for both the client and the therapist).
Specific paradigms we will cover include low sex and no sex marriages, low desire and desire discrepancy, affairs and monogamy breaches, and compulsive sexual behaviors in and out of the marriage. We will also look at how to create and repair open marriage and monogamy agreements.
In addition, this course will cover the fundamentals of erotic recovery and how to work with curiosity and openness. Participants will learn the foundations of sex therapy and the tools of sexual communication, including sexual empathy, validation, and visioning.
Clients who repeat patterns that lead to self-destructive behaviors both in their own lives and with a partner can create frustration for the therapist. They can also trigger countertransference, bias, projection, and even hopelessness. We will use alternative techniques to explore countertransference and therapist self-care to avoid burnout and secondary traumatization.
Based on the latest in research, real life case examples, and over 30 years of clinical practice, this course is for therapists already certified who want an advanced integrative approach plus the latest alternative interventions. This course is also for the beginner clinician who needs tools to use right away in their office.
As we gather in beautiful Cancun, Mexico, after what has been a difficult couple of years for everyone in this field, we will practice self-care and self-healing to revive our spirits and bring a new passion to the work of healing.
Learning Objectives
CE Credits
This workshop is approved for 16.25 CE hours by Praxis Continuing Education and Training.
This course meets the educational requirements of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) and is approved for 17.5 CE credits. These CE credits may be applied toward AASECT certification and renewal of certification. Completion of this program does not ensure or guarantee AASECT certification. For further information, please contact info@assect.org or go to www.AASECT.org. Please contact your local certifying organization for detailed information.

Tammy and I have worked together for years, and I did my first ever telecourse with her. Her book ’The New Monogamy’ explores the definition of infidelity, speaking to the many unspoken assumptions we often make in our romantic partnerships. It’s a clear, concise tool for navigating monogamy after a breach of trust.
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Additional Workshop Details
Target Audience:
Marriage and Family Therapists, Clinical and Counseling Psychologists, Psychiatric Social Workers, Pastoral Counselors, Psychotherapists, Psychiatrists, Physicians, Nurse Practitioners, Occupational Therapists, Counselors, Sex Therapists, Graduate Students in Accredited Programs in these fields
What level of knowledge should the attendee have in this topic?
Intermediate/Advanced
Daily Workshop Agenda
Time Frame | Content (Topics) |
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DAY 1 | |
9:00 am – 10:15 am | Lecture: Introduction Movement Exercise Lecture: What is Integrative Relationship Therapy? Discussion: Post-pandemic love |
10:15 am – 10:30 am | Morning break |
10:30 am – 12:30 pm | Lecture: erotic recovery Discussion: sexual empathy; increasing pleasure; inhibitory and excitatory sexual desire Exercise: Somatic experience Meditation Homework assignment Q&A |
DAY 2 | |
9:00 am – 10:15 am | Lecture: Relationship dilemmas; Leaving, looking, processing Discussion: Partner selection; What are pleasure disorders? Exercise: Self-care for healers |
10:15 am – 10:30 am | Morning break |
10:30 am – 12:30 pm | Case examples: erotic recovery; sexual empathy Lecture: Increasing pleasure; inhibitory and excitatory sexual desire Writing Exercise Somatic experience Meditation Homework assignment Q&A |
DAY 3 | |
9:00 am – 10:15 am | Intro + Review Yoga stretch Lecture: Cases – Crisis stage Arguments and threats; Intervention; Insight phase; more difficult issues Working with affairs Writing exercise Movement |
10:15 am – 10:30 am | Morning break |
10:30 am – 12:30 pm | Q&A Writing Exercise Group discussion Dyad Discussion Exercise: group closure |
DAY 4 | |
9:00 am – 10:15 am | Intro + review Exercise: Journaling Lecture: treating affairs; recovery after infidelity Discussion: more than forgiveness; the cheater and the cheated on Case: The unaware client Intervention discussion: Short-term and ongoing therapy Writing exercise: Create new and lasting relationship goals In and out of treatment |
10:15 am – 10:30 am | Morning break |
10:30 am – 12:30 pm | Exercise: Therapist self-care Creating a vision Homework Q&A |
DAY 5 | |
9:00 am – 10:15 am | Lecture: Intro + review Exercise: Journaling Discussion: Narrative therapy Exercise: Art Discussion |
10:15 am – 10:30 am | Morning break |
10:30 am – 12:30 pm | Lecture Dyad exercise Exercise: Movement Group discussion Q&A Closing words |
*Breaks not applicable for CEs.